Thursday, February 23, 2012

25 TIPS ON HOW TO BE POPULAR AMONG YOUR FRIENDS



1. Don’t express your opinion freely and unsought.

2. Don’t feel superior to three of your best friends.

3. Do not eat alone.

4. Read front-page murder stories.

5. Be interested in tests like this.

6. Talk about your aspirations, disappointments and 
problems.

7. Don’t barrow often.

8. Don’t be a “Dutch treat” addict.

9. When you describe something that has happened, don’t give every small detail.

10. Entertain even if entertaining costs money.

11. Don’t pride yourself upon your absolute frankness.

12. Be fond of children (not your own).

13. Don’t keep people waiting when you have an appointment with them.

14. Don’t play practical jokes.

15. Never think if silly for middle-aged people to fall in love.

16. Don’t cordially dislike more than seven people.

17. Never nurse grudges.

18. Use frequently such as words “awfully,” “dreadfully,” “terribly.”

19. Never be irritated to telephone operators and salesmen.

20. Don’t consider stupid and uninteresting the people who do not share your enthusiasm for music, books, sports.

21. Never break your word as often as you keep it.

22. Never criticize often, and to their faces, your family, your best friends, and your employees.

23. Don’t be depressed or discouraged when things go badly.

24. Be altogether glad of the success of your friends (when you are out of luck).

25. Indulge in interesting gossip.

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Special Credit to: Julio F. Silverio

8 TIPS ON HOW TO FORM AN EFFECTIVE PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY


1. The aim of every human being should be to formulate a personal philosophy of life. One that will assist in the fulfillment of goals.

2. Build a sound personal philosophy by studying the philosophies of the great thinkers of the past and present.

3. Delve into philosophy, theology, metaphysics, psychology and psychic phenomena. Learn all you can about life.

4. The structure of your philosophy should be based on spiritual truths found in the Bible.

5. Set high standards for yourself to live up to. Practice the presence of God in your life.

6. Love yourself and your fellow man. All you owe anyone is love. An expression of love is one which attempts to make others truly happy in an unselfish way. Focus on love, dissolve hate, resentment and hostility.

7. Seek to express more and to experience more each day. Develop and use your creative talents.

8. The past should only be thought of in terms of ‘experience’ gained. The past is washed away by the tide of the future.

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Special Credit to: Julio F. Silverio

Saturday, February 4, 2012

6 TIPS ON HOW TO WRITE GOOD LOVE LETTERS (FOR MEN)





No one can teach you how to write a love letter, but here are a few tips:

1. Never be discreet. If you dare not stick you r neck out, you might as well not write the thing. If you are afraid you may regret your wild words later on, when you have cooled off you do not love her anyway.

2. Never be reliable. If she knows that exactly four pages will drop on her doormat by the first post, six days a week, she will treat them as casually as they deserve. Much better to keep her guessing, so that she never know whether she will get 18 pages, two lines, or nothing at all – or find it under her pillow and wonder how the hell it got there.  

3. If you can type, do. Some people are said to be annoyed by this – but not so – and they far more likely ot be annoyed by writing they cannot read. Besides, it means that you can keep a carbon (a) to avoid contradicting yourself, and (b) to give to your lawyer when the troble starts.

4. Love letters do not have to be truthful. She done not expect it; she expects to be moved by their intensity.

5. In extreme cases, love letters do not have to be complimentary. Lovers’ private language is so personal that it is impossible, really, for an outsider to pass judgment on it.

6. How is your spelling? Even if it’s shocking, make sure you get one thing right – her name. Address, “Anne” as “Ann,” or “Jayne” as “Jane” and you have probably had it before you start.

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Special Credit to: Julio F. Silverio

10 TIPS ON HOW TO LOVE YOUR LOVED ONE (FOR WOMEN)





1. Promise you’ll never love another.

2. Stand by him all the time.

3. Cheer him when he is lonely and you’ll go thru life with a smile.

4. Never lie to one another.

5. Consider him in all you do.

6. And when you love, love with all your heart until your life is through.

7. Always try to remember the way he feels inside, but do not forget to let your conscience be your guide.

8. Be the first to forgive him.

9. Never let the teardrops start.

10. And don’t just say the ten commandments, live them with your heart.

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Special Credits to: Julio F. Silverio